Where do you want to be? Are your thoughts and actions leading you there? 3. Do you want to deal with the fallout? Always think of the end game. Is it going to help or hurt your marriage? How would your wife respond if she knew? Think about where your actions can lead and then imagine your wife finding out. While pondering the object of your desire, also ponder the consequences of action. Find a partner who is willing to help you with accountability. Set boundaries surrounding your phone, the computer, and TV. If contact with that person is a must, then make sure it is always in a public space and others are around. The last thing you want to do is find yourself alone with the object of your unhealthy desires, whether it is images or actual people. Winning early means staying away from traps. Here are 10 ways to battle sexual temptation. You are in a battle against sexual temptations and it’s important to win early. So how do we do that? For the sake of our marriages, relationships, or just spiritual well-being, we need to be able to find the answer. Our DNA is pre-loaded with the strong instinct to feel attraction and desire, yet life and morality demand that we are able to control those instincts. That disposition erodes boundaries and clouds our sense of right and wrong. Those thoughts grow into an attitude and then the attitude grows into a disposition. It begins with a thought that goes uncontested, perhaps even nurtured into a fantasy. Most people don’t set out to cheat on their spouse.
When someone confesses or is caught in an affair one of the first things they say is something to this affect, “I didn’t mean it.” Or “She/he meant nothing to me.” In other words they end up in a place they never wanted to be.
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